Sept. 18, 2012

Sex Is Easy.... Love Is Hard

by Marcus T. Rogers Jr (author's profile)

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Sex is Easy...Love is Hard

It seems that virgins are hard to come by these days. Sex is so glamorized and enjoyable that many people are in a rush to experience it as soon as possible. While Many men and women will admit to the joy of climaxing, they will also admit that each climax is only momentary enjoyment.
Having sex these days is easy. You can meet someone at the bar, club, social event, online ect. and by the end of the night be in the sack. Love on the other hand is hard. Love takes chemistry, time, trust, patiences, long suffering, enduring feelings and acts, not to mention comitment, loyalty, and devotion to one another.
I haven't had sex in eleven years and its fair to say I desire sexual intamacy "alot" (HA HA). However, as strong as that desire is... I want "Love" more. I would much rather love and be in with a woman than to have momentary pleasure with various sexual experiences.
To those reading this peice, take the time to seek joy in love rather than sex aline. When your truly in love the sex will be better anyways (wink). Take the time to let me know your thoughts on the peice.
Questions?
Are You a Virgin?
Are you in love?
Do you believe love is hard?

Write Me Direct At:
Marcus T. Rogers #377571
S.C.I
100 Corrections Drive
Stanley, WI 54768

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T121584 Posted 12 years, 2 months ago. ✓ Mailed 12 years, 1 month ago   Favorite
Interesting take on this topic. I enjoyed reading this one and looking over a few others (albeit some of the handwriting was a little difficult to read but thats ok). To answer your questions: No Im not a virgin nor in love nor do I believe love is hard. It is work, patience, commitment, happiness, and everything else that comes with it. But if at anytime love becomes hard, it probably isnt love anymore.

-Tim

Marcus T. Rogers Jr Posted 12 years ago.   Favorite
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T121584 Posted 12 years ago. ✓ Mailed 12 years ago   Favorite
Hi Marcus

No worrys about the handwriting I've seen a LOT worse and I'm can assure you mine is probably worse.

Back to the topic, just because love isn't hard doesn't mean finding the right person to love isn't. Not to mention graduate school takes up a lot of my time.

And you're right love is work. My great great grandmother taught us that Love has hands and fetlet. And the bible even tells us that love is an action word. So yes to love someone will require work. But all work is not hard. It requires willingness, patience, dedication and that can be challenging because of something someone did in the past or anything of the sort.

And as to your questions at the end they made me laugh because I though you were keeping stats of the responses you receive. But I'm from Michigan and I'm not sure how I got linked on your blog but it was an interesting read and break from the other materials I read on a daily basis.

Thanks for the response; I've enjoyed the conversation

Marcus T. Rogers Jr Posted 11 years, 11 months ago.   Favorite
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T121584 Posted 11 years, 10 months ago. ✓ Mailed 11 years, 10 months ago   Favorite
LMBOOOOO. I cannot believe you're ragging on my screen name. But let me respond to that first: since my responses are in a chain, I just assumed you knew who I was. Futhermore, its a continuation from my first response LOL. But in the spirit of a new year I wont hold that against you lol. And not to mention, how do you know T121584 isnt significant? Lol. Ill let you guess the numbers, its fairly simple. But enough with the name thing :).

And I appreciate you agreeing with me for miat of this two page letter; that means you're not too bad yourself lol. Thank you so much for the words  of encouragement!

To answer your questions, I'm now a law school graduate and am both in a MI school, #GoBlue and from the #MotorCity. The holidays were spent with some family and friends so we had some good food great laughs and all around good time. Despite your current location, how was the holiday for you? And YES I have a name LOLOL. You are having way too much fun with this name.

And why in the world do you think your "Sexy and I know it". That had me cracking up. I got a really good laugh from that. Not saying that you arent, because you maybe (lol) but just your sense of humor is funny. And its good to see you still have one despite your circumstances.

How much more time do you have left. And im sorry I havent wrote you directly but sending letters by mail seems ancient. But I might just for you lol.

Happy new year,

Tim aka T121584

Marcus T. Rogers Jr Posted 11 years, 8 months ago.   Favorite
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