July 21, 2011

Big Woman and Low Self-Esteem

by Lonnie Bowen (author's profile)



I would like to touch bases on a subject that really bothers me and concerns me, and that I have a little cousin dealing with the same thing. And I would like to set the record.

This topic deals with bigger and thicker women, and the low self-esteem they suffer due to this issue.

Society puts out there through magazines, TV, and other advertisements that woman has to be a size 5 or 6 or what not to be beautiful. That's complete nonsense.

As a real man that appreciates beauty in a woman, I would like to say something to these women.

Women are the queens of this earth and size does not take that away. And in itself is beautiful and should not be treated any less.

True beauty in my eyes is a woman who has real character, a good personality, a good heart and soul, and a pretty smile that would light up a man's heart. And to top it all confidence and swagger.

Everybody is so caught up in looks that they lose sight of true beauty and true love. Wonder why in these times the divorce rate is so high.

There is no reason why you women should have low self-esteem because you are beautiful and I am here to tell you this.

Me, myself, loves a bigger and thicker woman, but I am not trying to find love a woman just by their looks.

The word soulmate in itself is deeper than looks and a woman's size. And that's what I am trying to find, and I know she is out there.

I am sure there are men out there like me that appreciates a woman's true beauty like myself. So I say to you ladies of size that you are beautiful. So flush that low self-esteem in the toilet and put on your make up, put on something nice, have more confidence and go out in the town, have a good time, and enjoy yourself. Mr. Right is out there somewhere looking for you, beautiful. :)

Lonnie Bowen


Replies Replies feed

We will print and mail your reply by . Guidelines

Other posts by this author


Get notifications when new letters or replies are posted!

Posts by Lonnie Bowen: RSS email me
Comments on “Big Woman and Low Self-Esteem”: RSS email me
Featured posts: RSS email me
All Between the Bars posts: RSS