Friday March 1, 2013

Dear Nicki

Good morning! I received your comment last night. I just read them this morning. As always it's great to hear from you, and thank you for your kind words. And for those of who are defending me on their blogs, tell them I thank them from the bottom of my heart.

Humans can sometimes be cold hearted evil vindictive beings. I've seen comments left on others' web sites (by watching the news, Dr Phil, etc) where people have left comments saying "you should kill yourself" and just leaving hateful comments to make others feel bad about themselves.

I wish Between the Bars would do away with pseudonyms, I've written them about that. These pseudonyms allow people to say what they want without taking responsibility for what they're saying, and therefore encourages this cyber bullying. If people have something to say, they should be able to speak their mind, but they should also have to say I said it, and I take responsibility and stand behind what I say.

Guys in here told me when I was talking about Reddish, the abuse, DUIs etc, that I should be doing it under a pseudonym. And that probably would have been the smart thing to do, cower behind a pseudonym and run my mouth and say negative things and not take responsibility for what I say. But to me that's cowardly. If I have something to say, I'll say it and sign my name.

Dina suggested to me to not read the negative responses or reply to them. Which I'm taking her advice. I suggest you do the same. Some of these people are not curable. They are who they are. Hurtful sick individuals who have no other purpose other than to inflict pain upon others, so please don't let those type of people discourage you from ever leaving a comment. For you are better than them and they know it, and they don't like that.

I wish I could read others' blogs as you stated. Unfortunately that's not possible. I don't even know how many men and women are blogging on BTB or when my blogs are posted. That's how much in the dark we are.

But please don't ever let people who are negative and hateful discourage you from being who you are and doing what you want. You take care.

In peace, love + friendship
Ronnie

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