How Much is Too Much for a Woman?

Recently, I got married. Well, let me rephrase that. I've been locked up since 2009.

Anyway, in my marriage, it seemed good. It appears it wasn't because I was recently served divorce papers in 2010. When I lived with my wife, several things annoyed her. I am a gentle and loving man. I love to play in public and show that I care. I thought these were good traits for a man. Until I was rebutted time and tie for my show of affections. I was constantly told that I touched too much, that just because I thought I loved her did not mean that I had to kiss her. The simplest of things I felt I could not get right. I would say that I did more than most men.

Please, in no way feel I was over obsessive. I know it may seem that way. I worked a 10 hour day from 4 AM to 5 PM, and would get home around 6 PM, Monday-Saturday, and would be in bed by 10 PM. So it was not like we were around each other 24/7.

I know women are moody at times. :) Please smile because I mean no offense whatsoever. I just know that you have your "times" and would like to be left alone. I'd sooner keep my distance. :) My point is I am a caring man. Oh, and my show of affections and emotions were a disappointment to her. I guess my sensitivity was just too much.

This is a God-given gift I was born with and can't be changed. My point is: how do I know what is too much? I felt like she was trying to change everything that I am. The more I compromised, the more unhappy I became. But I was committed to her and willing to try. I never committed adultery, cheated or even thought about it. I know a lot of women are of different opinion, so here is your chance to mold a perfect guy with your comments. Yes, I will read and consider your each and every reply, if any.

Everybody dreams, and I guess that is what inspired this whole dialogue. I dream of finding that special someone and spending the rest of my life with her, and making her as happy as I can for as long as what I change keeps me happy.

So here is your perfect student. :) Any suggestions would be nice because nothing gives me more pleasure than knowing that the one I am with is happy. I'm starting on a different life and want to make the best of it with your help.

Please reply.

Teddy Drake #1599339
938 FM 1673
Snydor, TX 79549