Nov. 11, 2019

Life Is What You Want It To Be

From Real Talk Always by Anthony P. Heard Jr.

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November 3, 2019

LIFE IS WHAT YOU WANT IT TO BE

WHAT IS LIFE WITHOUT LOVE, AND WHAT IS LOVE WITHOUT PAIN

This question is one we should all ask ourselves because so much of life is love and pain. For some of us, the daily thoughts of love and pain has confused us on why we have them both. Is it possible for us to live with just love? That's a belief only you can answer because you can control that part of your life.

If you love yourself first, you wouldn't seek love from someone who seems to only love controlling you. We can't think that others can love us better than we love ourselves because that thought only gives the next person power over us. Everyone needs that equal in their lives who completes them as a person. However, you shouldn't believe that you have to settle for less because you don't love who you are as an individual. Because once you've learned to love you, you will want for your partner to love themselves so, that as a whole, love is a belief that both of you believe in.

However, life is full of pain because of the lack of love you have for yourself. See, when you form a connection due to material things that don't last and that's the beginning of pain between you two, those types of relationships never survive for long. Nevertheless, as time goes on and the two of you guys grow out of young lust and into adulthood, what you saw in that person then may not be what you want now. As life is love. And love is pain.

REAL TALK ALWAYS

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