July 3, 2013

Love Me or Love Me Not!

by Oscar Vielma (author's profile)


Love Me or Love Me Not!

It's just a thought. It's funny how people how people are so quick to express a thought, but a true feeling is hard to define. A big thing that I have stated in my life time is, either you do or you don't, either way it doesn't really matter. But if it relates to your companion or spouse, what do you do? How do you do the honour to express your love or true love? I came to understand that love comes in a way of two forms, you and the other person, if both people can not meet each other half way then go about your own business and take it for a lost. Don't put yourself in a spot where your hope for love is not there! Who are you kidding! Do not suffer when you can look for love somewhere else, seriously! What most of us fail to realise is that we intend to be with a person so we won't be lonely. But our intentions are wrong, one must be an honest and truthful person with our wants and don't wants. We must ask questions and seek what we desire. I myself have told several ex's that without emotional support they are useless for me and that becomes an obstacle that I don't need. You see, I am not picky or demanding when it comes to love. I don't discriminate and I choose wisely. I do desire to lean on when I'm down, someone who is going to be honest and speak their mind and not be afraid to do some double dares in life. Love is to be happy and make each other feel wanted by the other person. It's showing support and being there for each other and having the touch to make smile. But most of all I desire someone who enjoys life and is down to earth a happy 60? Lucky person: who enjoys to smile, but remember don't rush love and don't rush into a relationship. Therefore remember that it takes time to find what one desires and the key point is letting other people who know who you are and what your desires are 'cuz it's a simple task. Yup it's love me or love me not. Regardless what anyone decides, we do not give up on finding our lucky loved one. Someday I will seek my love but all within time. But until then I seek to enjoy life to the best of my ability and seek to meet new people and get the honour to know their point of view in life. But remember love does hurt and we all know that pain isn't going to be easy and how we choose to deal with it will depend on us. Be careful and avoid all the drama. That is not called for because if one is not on their toes then you will face a stumbling stone "love me not". Do your homework and understand that love only comes once for a person. There's no second chances unless you know the problem. But when the trust is broken, forget about it, trust me, there's no fixing that because it will happen again. Straight drama. Remember it's something to think about, after all its just a thought! Love me or love me not, either way it doesn't matter.



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CJP Posted 9 years, 10 months ago. ✓ Mailed 9 years, 10 months ago   Favorite
Thanks for writing! I finished the transcription for your post.

chiquis12 Posted 9 years, 8 months ago.   Favorite
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