July 8, 2013

Redemption, Ltr. 17

From Redemption by Ray Jones (author's profile)

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Redemption, Ltr. 17

Too many women want to fall into the traditional role of marriage, is the reason they not happy, & everybody getting divorced, because polygamy has been part of our history & culture since the beginning of time, an' I can almost guarantee every woman you know has been sharing a man with or without her knowledge, playing it off like she don't wanna know, an' the majority of beautiful women, once they discover & find out their man is cheating, refuses to tolerate his behavior, but never leaves him because a lot of women have themselves dated on the side, married men, an' the women who are married know they men are having affairs, so if a woman says she will not tolerate a polygamy relationship, then what will she call what she doing, because I would like to find a woman who is both intelligent, attractive, & open to the ideals of a polygamy relationship, so that we can embrace our lost Afrikan customs of living, because a man would have to listen to himself & to his wives to achieve his own emotional maturity & understanding, where his wives should put aside the initial petty jealousies that crop up at the beginning of almost any plural marriage, in finding women who love the idea of sisterhood, the notion of companionship, and the possibility of a family that could grow in so many different ways, because these strong independent women will want a strong revolutionary husband who would be a wonderful dad to his children, by raising them to be open-minded, to value freedom, to search for truth & knowledge, and to love every parent they have because the old Afrikan saying is, "It takes a village, to raise a child." The demands on a plural family are far greater than those on a monogamous couple, since the wives will have to consider the sensitivities of other wives & controlling they emotional feelings on a everyday basis, where we all must work toward a higher level of communication with one another, because our acceptance of being in a polygamy relationship allows us to transcend our limitations & become enlightened since it challenges us to be the best version of ourselves in this lifetime, as the wives will have so much time in making great friends & knowing them so well, allowing them to develop a great polygamy relationship based upon friendship & mutual respect, and it's the woman who decides to join this lifestyle she is interested in, if a woman finds a family union she feels spiritually connected, an' she builds a relationship with the first wife or wives, if everybody agrees to open our family union to additional wives, for all our kids' lives, will have the benefit of more parents who expose them to a wide range of different interests, talents & opinions.

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