Forgiveness for Those Who Raped Me and Asking Forgiveness from Those I Hurt.

I want to forgive my step-father who sexually abused me for close to seven years, from the age of 4 to 11. I also want to forgive him for not loving me. His anger, disdain, and casual disregard for me as a young boy who desperately wanted him to love me probably caused more damage than the rape. I also wish to forgive my biological father for abandoning me and never caring enough about me to contact me in any way, ever. As a young boy, while I was being raped, bullied and tortured, I would dream about you showing up one day and saving me. When you didn't I hated you and blamed you for what I was going through. I want to forgive my oldest brother for physically torturing me, I never understood why you hated me when I loved you so much, you used to be my hero bro. I would also like to forgive my older brother who raped me when I was 12, even though you kept whispering in my ear "I'm Sorry", as you rammed into me, it crushed and proved how worthless I was. My momma blamed herself after she found out what happened to me and begged me to forgive her until the day she died. Mommy there is nothing to forgive , I never told you because I knew how bad it hurt you. I love you mom, you are and forever will be in my heart. Rest in peace. I forgive those who hurt me so horribly and I place you into the loving arms of Father God and I pray that he will comfort and heal you.

There are many things I would hope to be forgiven for. To me, the biggest is that I failed my two baby sisters when I realized that my step-dad was sneaking into their bedroom while he was drunk, just like he used to do me. I knew what he was doing and I wanted to beat him up and save them but I was too afraid of him. I was 13. The other time was when my two little sisters were brave enough to report our step-dad to their teachers and the police. I lied to the police about my step-dad touching me, I was ashamed and terribly afraid of anyone ever finding out. I was 15.

There were many who I've had sex with, but cut them out of my life when they talked about loving me. Boys and girls, men and women who I scarred emotionally because of my twisted life. There are also many that I physically attacked and severely beat up because of my twisted mind and distorted sense of honor. I do most sincerely apologize for hurting you and hope that one day you can forgive me. You did nothing to deserve the pain I caused you.

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