"I do understand what they must feeland it's a tragedy, but they must go on to forgive,do you hear me; FORGIVE, as the hatred they express will only make them live with bitterness all their lives."
I very much doubt that you understand.
This sentiment would apply equally to the author of this post. It is apparent the bitterness he holds in his heart is self-destructive.
If a parole board doesn't give us the decision we want it doesn't mean we should keep changing to a "better" one that does.
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I think it's great that you care. You should never stop caring or getting other people to care as well. It is people like yourself who keep us from becoming a complacent society, which is dangerous.
I have known Frank Soffen for over 35 years.This is outrageous! I have seen with my own eyes the remorse and regret he has for his crimes and yet when I read the comments from the victims families, I do understand what they must feeland it's a tragedy, but they must go on to forgive,do you hear me; FORGIVE, as the hatred they express will only make them live with bitterness all their lives.This is not the right thing the Parole Board is doing. There was an inmate years ago named Louie Greco, who had cancer and they gave him a medical release so he could go to Florida to die where his sister lived and his crimes were also extremely seriousserious. Why is the Parole Board denying Frank due to the fact they don't think he is rehabilitated? I know differently, His medical problems he is suffering with are a death sentence as it is. He is a human being who deserves to have the last of his years with some dignity.I trust Frank Soffen with my life and would take care of him if he were released . The Parole Board surely has changed. Years ago we had members who would release him under the circumstances as they did Louie Greco.They believed that people changed.Over 40 years on his charges? It seems we need a better Parole Board ;one who has a heart for people suffering. After all, he has suffered more than his share. Rose A.
I understand where you are coming from, in terms of your ability to make decisions as a teen regarding sex.
But the thing is, if a 14 year old came up to you - now - would you be interested in protecting his welfare? As adults, we all have that obligation.
I've been following the comments of someone who is incarcerated for such a crime, and he uses all kinds of pseudo-intelligent essays to justify his behavior. It's shocking.
But the truth is, he was trolling for a child and found one.
As an adult, I would never put a child or a teen in harms way. Even if they pursued me.
And having a relationship with someone that young is putting them in harms way. They need to discover, explore and learn about the joys of a relationship with someone who is a peer.
I am not their peer. I am older and can use my knowledge (and power - financial, social, experience - all kinds of power) to manipulate them. That's just the truth.
For what it's worth, I wish he had turned you down. That's what a man should do when approached by a teen.
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I am glad that Between the Bars is helping. I am sorry that people are using the bible to bash on you and Dennis. I, myself am a Christian and I hope you take comfort in knowing - we aren't all like that. If I had to fill in the blanks I would say that Jesus would say about Gay People: "I love you just as much."
Thanks for writing! I finished the transcription for your post.
I find your views very interesting. Rape is certainly very difficult to prosecute because often times it is a case of he said/she said.
With regards to minors having sex with adults and the adults being prosecuted, I think it is worth noting that although a minor may feel that he/she wanted to engage in sex voluntarily and therefore not coerced or "raped" in the traditional sense, the minor does not really have the mental capacity to make such big decisions (even if they believe they do). It is why I believe there is an age of consent.
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I very much doubt that you understand.
This sentiment would apply equally to the author of this post. It is apparent the bitterness he holds in his heart is self-destructive.
If a parole board doesn't give us the decision we want it doesn't mean we should keep changing to a "better" one that does.
I think it's great that you care. You should never stop caring or getting other people to care as well. It is people like yourself who keep us from becoming a complacent society, which is dangerous.
God Bless
Maita
I agree that we should be looking at more than appearances when trying to find a true life mate :)
God Bless
Maita
Rose A.
But the thing is, if a 14 year old came up to you - now - would you be interested in protecting his welfare? As adults, we all have that obligation.
I've been following the comments of someone who is incarcerated for such a crime, and he uses all kinds of pseudo-intelligent essays to justify his behavior. It's shocking.
But the truth is, he was trolling for a child and found one.
As an adult, I would never put a child or a teen in harms way. Even if they pursued me.
And having a relationship with someone that young is putting them in harms way. They need to discover, explore and learn about the joys of a relationship with someone who is a peer.
I am not their peer. I am older and can use my knowledge (and power - financial, social, experience - all kinds of power) to manipulate them. That's just the truth.
For what it's worth, I wish he had turned you down. That's what a man should do when approached by a teen.
Thanks for writing! I finished the transcription for your post.
I am glad that Between the Bars is helping. I am sorry that people are using the bible to bash on you and Dennis. I, myself am a Christian and I hope you take comfort in knowing - we aren't all like that. If I had to fill in the blanks I would say that Jesus would say about Gay People: "I love you just as much."
God Bless
Maita
I find your views very interesting. Rape is certainly very difficult to prosecute because often times it is a case of he said/she said.
With regards to minors having sex with adults and the adults being prosecuted, I think it is worth noting that although a minor may feel that he/she wanted to engage in sex voluntarily and therefore not coerced or "raped" in the traditional sense, the minor does not really have the mental capacity to make such big decisions (even if they believe they do). It is why I believe there is an age of consent.
God Bless and hope to see more of your letters!
Maita
God Bless
Maita
Thanks for your letter! I finished the transcription for your post. It was quite an interesting read.
God Bless
Maita