You will always be their Dad. In the age of the internet, it's so much easier to reach out. Just offer what you can - even if it's just what you say in these posts. When you offer what you can - it's enough - because it's all that you have.
I don't see how you can "know" her mom and DADS vices. You have never met her dad and have not seen her mom in 7years. You are listening to a man who when you were out you hated. He has even lost the privilege to have contact with MY children. If you loved these kids so much why did you not attend the custody hearing? Why when the child support came about you quit your job? Their dad has provided them with everything you failed to do. So since you felt you had the right to advise our child (ours meaning mine and my husband) I will have to work harder to see she can't access this site. You gave her bad advice Johnny and as far as i can tell you of all people should not give life tips. If you had listened to people who cared for you for longer than a couple months you could see all of your kids. Also Don't forget who you were when i was your wife. And yes I'm aware of our "boo boos" so there is no need to talk of our past. So if you can't say something nice don't say nothing at all.
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Perhaps the bird you saw was a racing pigeon on its way to the finishing line, and outside your window looked like a good place to rest for a moment? Who knows! Perhaps indeed it was God. In any case, I'm glad you are able to find the smallest pleasures and gratitudes in every day life, even in prison.
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I think it's good to trust your feelings, but important to question them, too, and think about your intentions, motivations, and past experiences.
I believe that no one, no matter what they've been through, is 'damaged goods'. Try to view yourself as a survivor. Focus on the humanity and small blessings you still have, and try not to dwell on what was taken from you. Easier said than done, I know.
Hey, I've just finished transcribing your post. Your artwork is lovely. It was really interesting to read about your daily routine. Thanks for taking the time to write it.
Run to the hills....run for your life! Love it. Hey Mon! Happy Birthday! I'd send you a Ziggy card, but you get it already. Glad to hear of your recent news. The real test begins on the outside. Change. You've got a fresh start. Push the reset button and start again. Proud I am of you lad! Rock it.
Sorry this is quick. Got a great belly laugh out of the lego study and Zen shotglass.
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Sorry to hear about your injury. Hamstring injuries can range from a Grade 1 tear, which is just a minor strain, to a Grade 3 tear where the muscle complete ruptures. The pain is obviously greatest at Grade 3, and makes even slight movements intolerable - I wouldn't be surprised if this is the case with your injury. If you've been limping or walking awkwardly to compensate for the pain, you may get additional discomfort in another area (like your knee or hip). Or you may experience referred pain in associated joints/muscles (buttocks, calf etc.)
For a serious tear, it's recommended that you ice the area while you elevate the leg, but since ice is difficult to come by, elevating the leg should still help a little. Gentle stretching is recommended; lie flat on your back with your good leg bent (knee towards the ceiling), and slowly lift your poorly leg upwards keeping it locked straight. Pull it up towards you supporting it by gripping the back of your thigh. Do this gently - stop if it's too painful. You should only attempt to get back into light leg exercises like walking or cycling when your pain allows it - don't push too hard. A Grade 3 rupture could take months to fully heal, so unfortunately it could be a short while before you're back to normal. If you're allowed mild pain relief like ibuprofen, it can help, too. I hope this helps.
For someone who says they are not well educated, you write superbly. And for someone who says they are not a glass-is-half-full sort of person, you have an excellent positive attitude in many ways. Give yourself credit!
As for the music, creating/producing music in groups sounds like it would benefit prisoners. Perhaps a choir? You'd only need your voices, and perhaps at least one person with some musical knowledge. Or a drumming group - you needn't buy expensive kits, you can use anything (chairs, tables, books, clapping, be imaginative!).
RSS
That's love: offering what you have.
Because it IS enough. When you give all that you have, that's love.
j
Many congratulations on your 2 years of sobriety. Best wishes for continued success.
- Lisa
Perhaps the bird you saw was a racing pigeon on its way to the finishing line, and outside your window looked like a good place to rest for a moment? Who knows! Perhaps indeed it was God.
In any case, I'm glad you are able to find the smallest pleasures and gratitudes in every day life, even in prison.
Best wishes,
Lisa
I think it's good to trust your feelings, but important to question them, too, and think about your intentions, motivations, and past experiences.
I believe that no one, no matter what they've been through, is 'damaged goods'. Try to view yourself as a survivor. Focus on the humanity and small blessings you still have, and try not to dwell on what was taken from you. Easier said than done, I know.
Best wishes,
Lisa
"All our knowledge begins with the senses, proceeds then to the understanding, and ends with reason. There is nothing higher than reason."
- Immanuel Kant
Sorry this is quick. Got a great belly laugh out of the lego study and Zen shotglass.
More to come duder,
Scott
ps-always stay in clear of the ladder Boss
Sorry to hear about your injury.
Hamstring injuries can range from a Grade 1 tear, which is just a minor strain, to a Grade 3 tear where the muscle complete ruptures. The pain is obviously greatest at Grade 3, and makes even slight movements intolerable - I wouldn't be surprised if this is the case with your injury. If you've been limping or walking awkwardly to compensate for the pain, you may get additional discomfort in another area (like your knee or hip). Or you may experience referred pain in associated joints/muscles (buttocks, calf etc.)
For a serious tear, it's recommended that you ice the area while you elevate the leg, but since ice is difficult to come by, elevating the leg should still help a little. Gentle stretching is recommended; lie flat on your back with your good leg bent (knee towards the ceiling), and slowly lift your poorly leg upwards keeping it locked straight. Pull it up towards you supporting it by gripping the back of your thigh. Do this gently - stop if it's too painful. You should only attempt to get back into light leg exercises like walking or cycling when your pain allows it - don't push too hard. A Grade 3 rupture could take months to fully heal, so unfortunately it could be a short while before you're back to normal. If you're allowed mild pain relief like ibuprofen, it can help, too.
I hope this helps.
For someone who says they are not well educated, you write superbly. And for someone who says they are not a glass-is-half-full sort of person, you have an excellent positive attitude in many ways. Give yourself credit!
As for the music, creating/producing music in groups sounds like it would benefit prisoners. Perhaps a choir? You'd only need your voices, and perhaps at least one person with some musical knowledge. Or a drumming group - you needn't buy expensive kits, you can use anything (chairs, tables, books, clapping, be imaginative!).
Best wishes,
Lisa