What is She Really Saying?
Intimacy is filled with many questions, and all a person has are signs. Hurt gives little hints because many people are not all outspoken of their needs behind bedroom doors.

I consider myself an active lover—or did in my relationship with an ex-wife. For me though, it's not just about me!

I want the women I am with to experience a more pleasurable moment than myself because we all know if she's happy, we all are. :) Smile, ladies. You know it's true.

In my relationships, this has always been my goal and it's very awkward to ask, "Hey, am I doing this right? Am I too rough? Not rough enough?" And it's gotten to the point where frustration took its role and everybody threw in the towel.

I'm keeping this as forward and censored as possible: There are times when I have felt like the ultimate stud based on performance. I try to be creative and always bring something new to the table. An experience that exhilarates and leaves her with a big ol' grin! :P

But this subject confuses me extremely because of all the subtle signs. So how do I know what she's really saying?

Example: I speak of my ex only in reference and would never expose who she was or mean to humiliate her by this blob post. Everyone has their preferred position. But I feel that I have more of a selection. Brings more creativity and more of an experience. I found it dull to position myself in this awkward position every time for her, just to reach her "o". Not to mention tiring. [sweaty face] And the more I pushed for her to do something new, the more it frustrated her.

I even tried to compromise and played games... with little gets. You know if I win, and if you win...!

"No."

This dilemma has not happened with every woman and frankly hasn't been much of a problem. But with respect to my future lover, I'd like for it to be more of an open subject.

Is this all childish of me and meaningless, or can I simply worry about the wrong thing this is yet again? Your chance to speak freely and yet again reply.

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