Jesse this post has me in tears. Surely you are not an inmate in our eyes you are a beautiful elegant soul with a pure heart. If only the government could understand that we are more than just one action. We all are. Your being is defined by your loving heart and caring soul which we all know you have. And although these guards may treat you as an inmate in our hearts you are Jesse Wilson a beautiful writer and a loving human being. We love you and I pray for you every night and day. The universe watches over you every night and day and the sun the skies and the stars wish you peace with every passing day. You are Jesse. You are eternal. Your being is far more than the penitentiary pain and your soul will find peace.
I wish you could call. I miss your voice and talking to you. I love your writing and will finish reading your blog soon, so don't take it down. I'm very sorry I couldn't visit June 4. I'm sure I will July 2. Hopefully things won't keep getting in the way. I have time to myself since Aja is with my mom for a few weeks, so I will send a letter soon also. I would read and write this evening, but Aja wants me to make her a card and send it tomorrow to get there in time for her birthday, so I need to get on that.
Work is okay, but it's not the mindless kind where my thoughts can wander all day. It's very fast-paced and I have to pay careful attention so I don't forget anything or fall behind. It's good for me, though, because it's not too repetitive, so nothing gets strained too much. Also, no overtime!! 40 hours a week wears me out enough. I must be pretty out of shape. I miss the days where I could run around a restaurant for long shifts with hardly a break and not get wore out. I guess I thought I'd feel that way forever or I would've taken better care of myself. I used to go on long speed walks at the state park to de-stress, but I wasn't a healthy eater. I really didn't know how to be. And I should've slept more. I had a lot of problems, though. I was reading some of Michael Ian Black's memoir, and he said "If youth is wasted on the young, billions of dollars is wasted on the middle-aged trying to get it back." How true. I've always wished we came with a set of instructions so we wouldn't have to figure it all out as we went.
I love sitting with you for hours and talking. I was disappointed I didn't get to see you. I know you were even more disappointed, so I feel really bad when I let you down. I know you have a hard time in there. I hope you find/found a good cellmate. I hope your cats are happy and healthy.
Not much to talk about in the news that I know of. One of the Navy's Blue Angels fighter jets was practicing for the airshow in the next town over, Smyrna, and crashed in a field, so the Blue Angels had to cancel other shows it was scheduled to do soon. I haven't been to an airshow since Aja was 2. You been to one? My dad took us to at least one when we were kids.
I haven't been keeping up with the political debate much. I got burned out on it I guess. I couldn't imagine having to be involved in it. I guess you have to be really into politics. I still don't know enough about Trump or Hillary to have an educated enough opinion.
Studies show transgender people are more likely to be victims. “What is really unacceptable,” says HRC’s Oakley, “is we’re pinning [these fears] on people who are, in fact, themselves incredibly vulnerable in bathrooms.” In a study from UCLA’s Williams Institute, nearly 70% of transgender people said they had experienced verbal harassment in a situation involving gender-segregated bathrooms, while nearly 10% reported physical assault. And, advocates argue, laws that force transgender people to use restrooms where they can look out of place makes them more likely targets.
While opponents have circulated photos that suggest transgender people are unmistakable, many transgender people can go about their day without anyone being aware of their gender status. “When you are aware that trans people exist but you don’t understand trans people … that does create this opportunity for fear-mongering to slip in,” says Oakley. “You’ve probably been using bathrooms next to trans people for a long time.”
The nation’s leading organizations dedicated to stopping violence against women signed a letter saying that this argument is a myth. “These initiatives utilize and perpetuate the myth that protecting transgender people’s access to restrooms and locker rooms endangers the safety or privacy of others,” the letter states. “As rape crisis centers, shelters, and other service providers who work each and every day to meet the needs of all survivors and reduce sexual assault and domestic violence throughout society, we speak from experience and expertise when we state that these claims are false.”
Sexual assault remains a crime no matter why someone claims they entered a women’s space. The predator argument is based on an assumption that men who prey on women will be inspired to dress as women and enter women’s spaces because they could falsely claim to be transgender and therefore allowed to stay. But, advocates emphasize, if a female alleges she was sexually assaulted, the gender identity of the perpetrator has no bearing on the criminality of the act. “If you are a man who dresses as a woman and goes into a bathroom and commits a crime,” says the Human Rights Campaign attorney Cathryn Oakley, “whether you have a non-discrimination protection on the basis of gender identity or not, that behavior is illegal and criminal and you could be arrested and go to jail.”
Similar “predator” arguments have been used and debunked in the past. “We are not the first people who have been called predators for political gain,” says Mara Keisling, executive director of the National Center for Transgender Equality and a transgender woman. “Look most recently at Donald Trump saying Mexican immigrants were rapists. There’s a long, really horrifying history of demagogues and fundraisers saying, ‘Hey, those people over there, we have to hate them because we have to keep our women and children safe.’” Advocates have circulated old propaganda like videos saying “the homosexual” lurks in the bathroom waiting to prey on young boys. Arguments about bathrooms were used to justify segregation and helped doom the Equal Rights Amendment.
These arguments have been effective, advocates argue, because people tend to feel vulnerable in the bathroom, and women and children do have legitimate reason to fear assault in general. And they’re particularly effective against transgender people, they say, because for decades media portrayed transgender people as deceivers or deviants (think Silence of the Lambs or Ace Ventura: Pet Detective) and many people don’t have a personal relationship with someone who is transgender. A report from the Public Religion Research Institute found that while 65% of Americans say they have a close friend or family member who is gay, just 9% say the same thing about having a personal relationship with someone who is transgender.
Dear Jennifer Johnson, in response to your article about transgender bathrooms, I want to quote an article that is about this sex offender fright: (Time magazine, june 2, title: Why LGBT Advocates Say Bathroom ‘Predators’ Argument Is a Red Herring)
It’s become a common refrain in recent months: Allowing transgender people to use the restroom that aligns with their gender identity will end up letting male sexual predators into women’s bathrooms. From North Carolina to South Dakota, supporters of controversial bills seeking to limit transgender people’s use of public restrooms have repeatedly made that argument. There is little hard evidence to back up this assertion, but LGBT advocates and other opponents of the bills have had to develop a number of counter-arguments to refute it.
Here’s a breakdown of their arguments.
Several states and major cities have supported transgender people’s bathroom access for years. There are more than a dozen states and several cities that have non-discrimination laws that protect gender identity in public accommodations, which is a legalistic way of saying transgender people can use whatever bathrooms they want in public. This is the kind of affirmation that started the whole controversy in North Carolina.
Fears about male predators have not been borne out in those places. New York City has banned discrimination based on gender identity for more than a decade. California has affirmed the rights of K-12 students to use the bathrooms and locker rooms that align with their gender identity for years. Advocates say that while there are some past examples of heterosexual men dressing up like women to gain access to women’s spaces, there’s no record of that behavior increasing when there’s an LGBT non-discrimination law on the books. “We have so many places that do prohibit discrimination where this has never come up,” says the Equality Federation’s Rebecca Isaacs. “This is a red herring.”
Police and school officials say they haven’t seen it either. Media Matters, a liberal media watchdog, has asked state leaders, law enforcement and school officials in places with these protections whether they’ve seen any increase in sexual assault or rape after passing these laws, and they have repeatedly said that they have not. “We have not seen that,” a Des Moines police department spokesman told the outlet in 2014. “I doubt that’s gonna encourage the behavior. If the behavior’s there, [sexual predators are] gonna behave as they’re gonna behave no matter what the laws are.”
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I wish you could call. I miss your voice and talking to you. I love your writing and will finish reading your blog soon, so don't take it down. I'm very sorry I couldn't visit June 4. I'm sure I will July 2. Hopefully things won't keep getting in the way. I have time to myself since Aja is with my mom for a few weeks, so I will send a letter soon also. I would read and write this evening, but Aja wants me to make her a card and send it tomorrow to get there in time for her birthday, so I need to get on that.
Work is okay, but it's not the mindless kind where my thoughts can wander all day. It's very fast-paced and I have to pay careful attention so I don't forget anything or fall behind. It's good for me, though, because it's not too repetitive, so nothing gets strained too much. Also, no overtime!! 40 hours a week wears me out enough. I must be pretty out of shape. I miss the days where I could run around a restaurant for long shifts with hardly a break and not get wore out. I guess I thought I'd feel that way forever or I would've taken better care of myself. I used to go on long speed walks at the state park to de-stress, but I wasn't a healthy eater. I really didn't know how to be. And I should've slept more. I had a lot of problems, though. I was reading some of Michael Ian Black's memoir, and he said "If youth is wasted on the young, billions of dollars is wasted on the middle-aged trying to get it back." How true. I've always wished we came with a set of instructions so we wouldn't have to figure it all out as we went.
I love sitting with you for hours and talking. I was disappointed I didn't get to see you. I know you were even more disappointed, so I feel really bad when I let you down. I know you have a hard time in there. I hope you find/found a good cellmate. I hope your cats are happy and healthy.
Not much to talk about in the news that I know of. One of the Navy's Blue Angels fighter jets was practicing for the airshow in the next town over, Smyrna, and crashed in a field, so the Blue Angels had to cancel other shows it was scheduled to do soon. I haven't been to an airshow since Aja was 2. You been to one? My dad took us to at least one when we were kids.
I haven't been keeping up with the political debate much. I got burned out on it I guess. I couldn't imagine having to be involved in it. I guess you have to be really into politics. I still don't know enough about Trump or Hillary to have an educated enough opinion.
I gotta go. Talk to you again soon.
While opponents have circulated photos that suggest transgender people are unmistakable, many transgender people can go about their day without anyone being aware of their gender status. “When you are aware that trans people exist but you don’t understand trans people … that does create this opportunity for fear-mongering to slip in,” says Oakley. “You’ve probably been using bathrooms next to trans people for a long time.”
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Have a good day!
Julia
Sexual assault remains a crime no matter why someone claims they entered a women’s space. The predator argument is based on an assumption that men who prey on women will be inspired to dress as women and enter women’s spaces because they could falsely claim to be transgender and therefore allowed to stay. But, advocates emphasize, if a female alleges she was sexually assaulted, the gender identity of the perpetrator has no bearing on the criminality of the act. “If you are a man who dresses as a woman and goes into a bathroom and commits a crime,” says the Human Rights Campaign attorney Cathryn Oakley, “whether you have a non-discrimination protection on the basis of gender identity or not, that behavior is illegal and criminal and you could be arrested and go to jail.”
Similar “predator” arguments have been used and debunked in the past. “We are not the first people who have been called predators for political gain,” says Mara Keisling, executive director of the National Center for Transgender Equality and a transgender woman. “Look most recently at Donald Trump saying Mexican immigrants were rapists. There’s a long, really horrifying history of demagogues and fundraisers saying, ‘Hey, those people over there, we have to hate them because we have to keep our women and children safe.’” Advocates have circulated old propaganda like videos saying “the homosexual” lurks in the bathroom waiting to prey on young boys. Arguments about bathrooms were used to justify segregation and helped doom the Equal Rights Amendment.
These arguments have been effective, advocates argue, because people tend to feel vulnerable in the bathroom, and women and children do have legitimate reason to fear assault in general. And they’re particularly effective against transgender people, they say, because for decades media portrayed transgender people as deceivers or deviants (think Silence of the Lambs or Ace Ventura: Pet Detective) and many people don’t have a personal relationship with someone who is transgender. A report from the Public Religion Research Institute found that while 65% of Americans say they have a close friend or family member who is gay, just 9% say the same thing about having a personal relationship with someone who is transgender.
in response to your article about transgender bathrooms, I want to quote an article that is about this sex offender fright: (Time magazine, june 2, title: Why LGBT Advocates Say Bathroom ‘Predators’ Argument Is a Red Herring)
It’s become a common refrain in recent months: Allowing transgender people to use the restroom that aligns with their gender identity will end up letting male sexual predators into women’s bathrooms. From North Carolina to South Dakota, supporters of controversial bills seeking to limit transgender people’s use of public restrooms have repeatedly made that argument. There is little hard evidence to back up this assertion, but LGBT advocates and other opponents of the bills have had to develop a number of counter-arguments to refute it.
Here’s a breakdown of their arguments.
Several states and major cities have supported transgender people’s bathroom access for years. There are more than a dozen states and several cities that have non-discrimination laws that protect gender identity in public accommodations, which is a legalistic way of saying transgender people can use whatever bathrooms they want in public. This is the kind of affirmation that started the whole controversy in North Carolina.
Fears about male predators have not been borne out in those places. New York City has banned discrimination based on gender identity for more than a decade. California has affirmed the rights of K-12 students to use the bathrooms and locker rooms that align with their gender identity for years. Advocates say that while there are some past examples of heterosexual men dressing up like women to gain access to women’s spaces, there’s no record of that behavior increasing when there’s an LGBT non-discrimination law on the books. “We have so many places that do prohibit discrimination where this has never come up,” says the Equality Federation’s Rebecca Isaacs. “This is a red herring.”
Police and school officials say they haven’t seen it either. Media Matters, a liberal media watchdog, has asked state leaders, law enforcement and school officials in places with these protections whether they’ve seen any increase in sexual assault or rape after passing these laws, and they have repeatedly said that they have not. “We have not seen that,” a Des Moines police department spokesman told the outlet in 2014. “I doubt that’s gonna encourage the behavior. If the behavior’s there, [sexual predators are] gonna behave as they’re gonna behave no matter what the laws are.”
Prayers from this side :)