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I just read this Johnny and I think of u just as often u just hurt me so bad but I do love u !!! Love Jennifer aka that chic

Hello
My name is miss Jelin,i am looking for a new friend i saw your profile today and became interested in you,i
will also like to know you the more,and i want you to send a mail to my email
address so i can give you my picture for you to know whom l am.Here is my email

address (meetjeliin@yahoo.ca)

I believe we can move from here.I am waiting for
your mail to my email address (meetjeliin@yahoo.ca)

Hello
My name is miss Jelin,i am looking for a new friend i saw your profile today and became interested in you,i
will also like to know you the more,and i want you to send a mail to my email
address so i can give you my picture for you to know whom l am.Here is my email

address (meetjeliin@yahoo.ca)

I believe we can move from here.I am waiting for
your mail to my email address (meetjeliin@yahoo.ca)

akbar

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Frank does not mention his family LivingMurderVictim because he knows less about those people than anyone in the world. I am "Little Franny's" daughter and while we visited Frank at a young age that stopped before I entered high school. He has alienated himself from his family and now in death hopes to plea to strangers for the compassion he can't find anywhere else. He has no where to stay if he were to be released because he has burned those bridges long ago. To be honest when asked about my grandfather I often opt for the lie rather than the truth. Most people believe my grandfather died in my father's youth simply because I do not wish to allow him to tarnish people's ideas of my family and our family name. You disgrace that name Frank and the only saving grace for that is that my family and myself have spent our lives bettering that name. I feel for you because I am your granddaughter and it pains a part of me to see you suffering, but if you had felt remorse years ago and truly saught forgiveness for your crimes maybe all of our lives would be different. As I said before actions speak louder than words Frank and while you seem to find plenty of words I see little action to truly earn the forgiveness you seek. You say you are old and dying Frank but I find it hard to believe you ever took the time in your life to truly grow up. Real adults face their mistakes and do what it takes to make them right. So far all I see is an old man whining because he doesn't understand why he can't get his way.

As the sister to TanyaSue and also granddaughter of Frank I agree that he is not concerned with anyone but himself. I have seen him as a child brush off his crimes as if they were nothing. Here, however, is where I disagree with my sister. While she can find compassion for our grandfather I feel nothing for the man but pity; to be dying alone with much of your family no longer caring must be extremely hard and painful. However, Frank when have you ever cared for us? Where are the posts begging for release to see your children, your grandchildren, or even your great grandchildren whom I'm sure you know little if anything about? Where is your compassion to your son, the man who helped raise your children at a young age because of what you put him and my grandmother through? I do not claim sainthood for my father or my grandmother. No human being is perfect but Frank you don't deserve to be released. You feel zero remorse and I have seen that in you from a young age. It may be possible that "finding god" may have changed some of your feelings, but as far as I know God has always been there. Why do you think "finding Him" now will make people forgive you. Forgiveness is earned Frank and you never did anything to earn that from the families of your victims or even your own family who has succeeded in spite of you not because of you. These posts are nothing more than an old man’s cries for sympathy because he can’t see past his rose-colored glasses to the reason why. If you had felt remorse Frank and showed such remorse to the families of your victim maybe they would feel compassion towards your dying wish. I do not blame them for keeping you in jail. While I see why my sister feels you should be released I myself have been a victim to someone’s abuse and feel that the people who should decide when it is time are those who you have hurt the most. You want God to truly forgive you Frank than seek forgiveness from those you have wronged and hope they have enough compassion to at least hear you out. However, I would not blame them for claiming this to be far too little and far too late. The Frank Soffen I visited in jails when I was younger held no remorse. If you have it now Gramps then prove it. Actions speak a hell of a lot louder than words. I can’t say I have love for you because you were never much of a part of my life. I will hold memories with me of times with you when I thought I could love you as my grandfather, but you never tried to stay in our lives Frank. How can you expect others to believe what you can’t even get your own family to see? Yes what you have done in jail has been amazing. You saved a life and the joy from that should be repayment enough. If you have truly found God than you should know that anger and resentment will do nothing but kill you faster. Find a way to find peace and be the bigger man by reaching out to those you’ve hurt.

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