Dymitri, reading this was very difficult. Because you write so well, eloquently, it transported me to the nightmare you and your cellmate live. It paints a picture far worse than I was hoping you were living. I thought you were lucky enough that the security level you've been place would have weeded out such violence. The other part of this, I'm surprised such behavior occurs so un-captured by the authorities who are in charge with the inmates' safety and keeping some semblance of order in there. However, you know I've seen what hell looks and feels like. I'm just heartbroken you're there again. I'm sorry. You stay strong, smart, non-violent, and don't be a stupid hero--I didn't say don't be a "hero," just don't be a stupid one. Like you describe, there's little things you can do, like try to be reasonable, but I already know how far that goes. How I got through those 5 years from 1996-2001 I still don't fully understand. At my age today, it would be a lot harder and psychologically I'd brake much quicker and much more permanently. No one in this family has forgotten you. Today, that doesn't mean much, but perhaps, with reforms and new technology, housing human souls in cages won't be the default way of dealing with everything. Chris
Hey Donnie! It's Cindy! I have great news! Matt and I set a wedding date! 9/12/15. Everything has been going great for us! I'm so sorry I haven't written. Time moves too quickly when you have little kids. I remember that I need to write and then forget again because the boys distracted me or needed something and I forget again. It's definitely a vicious cycle, I'm not 40 yet and my mind is already going. Hahaha! I'm pretty sure you have your address listed on your bio, and as long as you do, I'm gonna send you one of our Christmas cards. I know it's late, but you should still have one! I'll write soon :) hope everything is going well! Love you, Cindy
Hello Allan, Thank You for your intelligent, well written paper. I have my Bachelor's of Science in Psychology and working on getting accepted to Grad School. In as well, further employment in field with offenders. My point is I have done much research and working on work (including unofficial)with offenders, particularly SO's. I enjoyed reading your paper and would like to enlighten people with your knowledge. Thank you, again. Respectfully, Anne K
1. prostitution is older than capitalism 2. "sexual intercourse should be an expression of love", that's a bit too romantic, isn't it? sexual intercourse is an expression of all kinds of things, not only love. have a nice day, julia
Chris
I have great news! Matt and I set a wedding date! 9/12/15.
Everything has been going great for us! I'm so sorry I haven't written. Time moves too quickly when you have little kids. I remember that I need to write and then forget again because the boys distracted me or needed something and I forget again. It's definitely a vicious cycle, I'm not 40 yet and my mind is already going. Hahaha! I'm pretty sure you have your address listed on your bio, and as long as you do, I'm gonna send you one of our Christmas cards. I know it's late, but you should still have one!
I'll write soon :) hope everything is going well! Love you,
Cindy
I read your profile and it is very touching. Thank you Daniel for sharing your growth. You write well and appreciate you sharing.
Best, Anne K
I enjoy reading how you relay yourself.
Thank you,
Anne K
Thank you for sharing.
Respectfully,
Anne K
Thank You for your intelligent, well written paper. I have my Bachelor's of Science in Psychology and working on getting accepted to Grad School. In as well, further employment in field with offenders. My point is I have done much research and working on work (including unofficial)with offenders, particularly SO's. I enjoyed reading your paper and would like to enlighten people with your knowledge.
Thank you, again.
Respectfully,
Anne K
two thoughts on your blog
1. prostitution is older than capitalism
2. "sexual intercourse should be an expression of love", that's a bit too romantic, isn't it? sexual intercourse is an expression of all kinds of things, not only love.
have a nice day,
julia