I understand that you want someone again, who doesn't. But you don't want someone who will search through your stuff to make sure that you are faithful. While in a way that sounds romantic, that is jealousy and mistrust on the other person's part. I've been with jealous people, I've been with people who tried to check up on me, and you don't want that. You should want someone who loves you so much, that they don't need to do any of that. Love is trusting, not envious or jealous.
I'm glad that you are aware that that letter was fraud, not everyone sees that. Some are so desperate for money that they are blind to see it for what it is.
Wow, I am sorry that you get so many guys writing you, telling you that God willed them to write you, and them wanting to write such letters to you and wanting you to do the same. And them saying that you and them are meant to be together. Please stay away from them. Save your time, energy, and stamps for guys that want to write you decently and treat you respectfully when they write you. Any guy that is talking inappropriately in his letter to you and/or wants you to do the same, are trying to make God a part of it when He isn't.
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I understand why you would take a principled stance like that.
- Chris