thank you for expressing your compassion for those who were harmed by my actions. I assure you that I have taken seriously the harm I have done. I have communicated that to professionals who have helped me both acknowledge the harm of my past actions and just as importantly learn to become aware of my triggers for past escape into alcohol, porn and sexual chat. I have learned new coping mechanisms to respond in healthy ways that harms no one (others or me). I have dedicated the past 10 years to recreating a healthy and safe way of relating to my own life and those around me. I can never make amends for my past actions. I can only make a life amends. Making sure no will ever again be harmed by my actions in the present and future. Personallyviolated may you find the peace and love that you deserve.
This is good stuff and i agree with it. I went to AA for 2 years and got nowhere until i joined an all female group. Most of us realized that men were the causes of our drinking and there they were looking at us in regular AA. But with just us girls we could talk without sexual innuendos from the guys. It really helped us open up when it was just us. A lot more honesty. And no one asking u out for a drink afterwards.
I don't need to be taken care of. Many men have tried that, including you, and they all failed. By the way, no one calls him junkie Jason. I don't know where you get your information, but it's crap.
Dear Christopher Trotter, I just transcribed your post, followed the earlier ones too, my heart goes out to you, I wish you strength and courage in this difficult time. Warm greetings, Julia
thank you for expressing your compassion for those who were harmed by my actions. I assure you that I have taken seriously the harm I have done. I have communicated that to professionals who have helped me both acknowledge the harm of my past actions and just as importantly learn to become aware of my triggers for past escape into alcohol, porn and sexual chat. I have learned new coping mechanisms to respond in healthy ways that harms no one (others or me). I have dedicated the past 10 years to recreating a healthy and safe way of relating to my own life and those around me. I can never make amends for my past actions. I can only make a life amends. Making sure no will ever again be harmed by my actions in the present and future. Personallyviolated may you find the peace and love that you deserve.
I just transcribed your post, followed the earlier ones too, my heart goes out to you, I wish you strength and courage in this difficult time.
Warm greetings,
Julia