PS But I do understand your point with the illness. My mom is ill too and needs medicine throughout her life, and when she and my Dad married they asked a doctor if children could inherit that illness (a kind of what we call "Epilepsie"). He said no and so we were born.... My parents wouldn´t have got children if we could have got that illness as well.
Hope my first sentence wasn´t too hurtful. It´s just, you know, that many people want to have some love and care within a family just like you want it in a relationship. That´s, in general, quite natural and not necessarily especially selfish.
You mean, as selfish as you wanting to have a girlfriend? ;-)
I think I know what you mean and there are indeed alot of couples wanting to have children where I do agree with you.
For example, I don´t really understand why some people think they have a right to have everything without any compromise: A big fat career for him and for her as well - and of course, one or more children (if you are a Hollywood actor, you don´t even take the suffering to bear it but let another woman give birth to your child) to have heirs and when they´re small, to have such a little sweet doll in your arms - and then they´re given away to a nanny or somewhere else, only fetched in the evening and they don´t have a real relationship with their physical parents.
I even heard doctors from a hospital which does artificial fertilisation (don´t know the right term, hope you understand what I mean) say: Single women also have a right to have a child. THAT´S indeed selfish. A right to have a child? A child is a gift by God, not a right to have.
On the other hand, I also know people who, for example, had a wonderful childhood with loving parents and who want to give such a childhood to another little human being and love it into life. I wouldn´t call such parents selfish - although, a little selfishness does belong to it, otherwise manhood wouldn´t exist anymore, I guess. ;-))) The personal wish to have children is necessary to keep a species alive....
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Thanks for writing! I worked on the transcription for your post. I like your sense of humor. I mean, I think you were trying to be funny, right, and this isn't a horrible misinterpretation?
Thanks for writing! I finished the transcription for your post. I think solitary confinement is horrible, being in prison is bad enough as it is! No need to put salt on the wound.
It has been a very long time. I learned of your circumstances barely 2 years ago, and i wanted to write to you but didn't really know what to say or if I should say anything. I searched my heart and this is what I would like for you to know. I can only see the sweet and shy young man that I knew as a girl of sixteen. You were my very first love. You were strong and gentle and I could hardly believe that you would come to Waring Court just to see me! You were so tall and your afro so big and fluffy. I loved braiding your hair! Those quiet moments on the steps, and sweet kisses we shared in innocence have remained with me all through these passing years. I will not forget you and you are correct to maintain your focus upon Christ as he will always be by your side and offer comfort. Stay Strong.
And thank you for your wishes of a Happy Christmas. I wish you a merry Christmas too.
(from France)
But I do understand your point with the illness.
My mom is ill too and needs medicine throughout her life, and when she and my Dad married they asked a doctor if children could inherit that illness (a kind of what we call "Epilepsie").
He said no and so we were born....
My parents wouldn´t have got children if we could have got that illness as well.
Hope my first sentence wasn´t too hurtful.
It´s just, you know, that many people want to have some love and care within a family just like you want it in a relationship. That´s, in general, quite natural and not necessarily especially selfish.
I think I know what you mean and there are indeed alot of couples wanting to have children where I do agree with you.
For example, I don´t really understand why some people think they have a right to have everything without any compromise: A big fat career for him and for her as well - and of course, one or more children (if you are a Hollywood actor, you don´t even take the suffering to bear it but let another woman give birth to your child) to have heirs and when they´re small, to have such a little sweet doll in your arms - and then they´re given away to a nanny or somewhere else, only fetched in the evening and they don´t have a real relationship with their physical parents.
I even heard doctors from a hospital which does artificial fertilisation (don´t know the right term, hope you understand what I mean) say: Single women also have a right to have a child.
THAT´S indeed selfish. A right to have a child?
A child is a gift by God, not a right to have.
On the other hand, I also know people who, for example, had a wonderful childhood with loving parents and who want to give such a childhood to another little human being and love it into life.
I wouldn´t call such parents selfish - although, a little selfishness does belong to it, otherwise manhood wouldn´t exist anymore, I guess. ;-)))
The personal wish to have children is necessary to keep a species alive....
(The one with the Christians, I mean.)
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It has been a very long time. I learned of your circumstances barely 2 years ago, and i wanted to write to you but didn't really know what to say or if I should say anything. I searched my heart and this is what I would like for you to know. I can only see the sweet and shy young man that I knew as a girl of sixteen. You were my very first love. You were strong and gentle and I could hardly believe that you would come to Waring Court just to see me! You were so tall and your afro so big and fluffy. I loved braiding your hair!
Those quiet moments on the steps, and sweet kisses we shared in innocence have remained with me all through these passing years. I will not forget you and you are correct to maintain your focus upon Christ as he will always be by your side and offer comfort. Stay Strong.
San